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- Publisher: HarperOne (29 Mar 1989)
- ASIN: B0052IAOMO
- Average Customer Review: 4.5 out of 5 stars See all reviews (33 customer reviews)
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159 of 164 people found the following review helpful
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C.S. Lewis is perhaps best known for children's stories that also delight adults; however, during his lifetime he was best known as an inspirational speaker, not quite in the same line as modern televangelists, but nonetheless a crowd-pleaser who had subtle but strong theology to share.
C.S. Lewis was a confirmed bachelor (not that he was a 'confirmed bachelor', mind you, just that he had become set enough in his ways over time that he no longer held out the prospect of marriage or relationships). Then, into his comfortable existence, a special woman, Joy Davidson, arrived. They fell in love quickly, and had a brief marriage of only a few years, when Joy died of cancer.
This left Lewis inconsolable.
For his mother had also died of cancer, when he was very young.
Cancer, cancer, cancer!
Lewis goes through a dramatic period of grief, from which he never truly recovers (according to the essayist Chad Walsh, who writes a postscript to Lewis' book). He died a few years later, the same day as the assassination of John F. Kennedy.
However, Lewis takes the wonderful and dramatic step of writing down his grief to share with others. The fits and starts, the anger, the reconciliation, the pain--all is laid bare for the reader to experience. So high a cost for insight is what true spirituality requires. An awful, awe-ful cost and experience.
'Did you know, dear, how much you took away with you when you left? You have stripped me even of my past...'
All that was good paled in comparison to the loss. How can anything be good again? This is such an honest human feeling, that even the past is no longer what is was in relation to the new reality of being alone again.
In the end, Lewis reaches a bit of a reconciliation with his feelings, and with God.
'How wicked it would be, if we could, to call the dead back. She said not to me, but to the chaplain, "I am at peace with God." '
Lewis had a comfortable, routine life that was jolted by love, and then devasted by loss. Through all of this, he took pains to recount what he was going through, that it might not be lost, that it might benefit others, that there might be some small part of his love for Joy that would last forever.
I hope it shall.
71 of 73 people found the following review helpful
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Lewis orginally published "A Grief Observed" using a pseudonym because as the world's foremost Christian author, he feared his readers would label him a heretic. Quite the opposite!! Lewis comes across as a human being in this work-- not the master defender of the faith, and perhaps that in and of itself is a great defence of the faith. "A Grief Observed" is simply an honest man's struggle with his own faith. He shouts at God in the beginning stages of his grief but comes back to God in the end with a heart full of thanksgiving for the precious treasure he called his wife. Read this book, and you will cry. Read this book, and your faith will be strengthened. I give it my highest recommendation. Also recommended: "Castle of Wisdom," a Christian book by an obscure author called Rhett Ellis-- his writing is not as polished as Lewis's, but his book is utterly entertaining.
69 of 71 people found the following review helpful
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When I brought this home, my mum took it to read first, intrigued and eager to know Lewis' insights. Not only is it something we (as grievers at any stage) can all read and say, 'Yes I know that feeling', but it can be passed around family members and become something to bond over. That sounds incredibly vague and sentimental, but it really does seem to have had that effect on my family, recently bereaved.
I don't think it should be reserved only for grieving people, however, just that the writings have more significance if you are in a similar mindset. The discussions about God and Heaven should not put you off because it is just those things which are debated and puzzled over. Lewis is in no way at all preaching personal or wider Christian beliefs.
The writing is honest - frequently he reflects on what he has just put down and disagrees with it, or rethinks it. Overall it is an affecting and very humane essay (I would call it that, not novel or anything). It is a slim volume and a quick read, but one to keep on the shelf always.
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A comfort for me...
C.S. Lewis's book A Grief Observed is a very personal account of his thoughts and feelings following the death of his wife. Read more
Published 1 month ago by Lizzie
A personal account of one man's experience of grief
In the last year, I've experienced a spate of close family deaths, but Lewis' A GRIEF OBSERVED is a personal diary I could relate to only fleetingly. Read more
Published 1 month ago by Judy Croome
I'm writing this "before the fact."
There's a good possibility that I'm facing the loss of my mother. She was diagnosed with cancer not quite a year ago, and she was expected to live until about August. Read more
Published 5 months ago by L. L Teuling
Lewis is a master of words
Deliciously written account of the author's grief at the death of his wife. It's only short; I read it in a night and couldn't put it down. Read more
Published 7 months ago by Mike Andrew Dawson
A soul laid bare
I read this as a follow-up to Lewis' earlier work, The Problem of Pain for an alternative look at theodicy. Read more
Published 11 months ago by S. Meadows
great little book
I enjoyed this book as he writes with the raw emotion of recent grief. Wriiten over a fairly short time as he comes to terms with the enourmous loss.
Published 11 months ago by Netty
Wow!
This is the best book I have read on the death of someone close. Lewis has an amazing ability to take you right inside his incredible mind, but he doesn't leave you there. Read more
Published 12 months ago by JB
extrordinarly helpful
A must read for anyone dealing with a death. CS lewis is, as usual, brilliant in an honest review of his grief after his wifes death.
Published 15 months ago by Nicole Kaiser
Perfection
To write like this within a month of the death of one's wife is extraordinary, but then C.S. Lewis was nothing if not extraordinary. Read more
Published 17 months ago by D. Cocup
Real, very real. Painfully real
I was cringing at his expressions towards God sometimes. Yet, as one who suffered the agony of losing my father at 18 I felt for him. Read more
Published 18 months ago by Dave Kinsella
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