Vanier is a rare, authentic individual. I don't know of a smaller book that is so large on wisdom. If you ask those that have been through a formation program for the gem of their experience, it often comes in the form of "embrace your shadow." From Brokenness to Community makes the same point.
Vulnerable, we become approachable. Community is possible.
Aware of our shadow, we become less judgmental. Community is possible.
The residents of Vanier's community have severe physical and mental handicaps which soon test the souls of "regular" community members who support them. Once anger, jealousy, rivalry and impatience is exposed, it can be acknowledged and dealt with. The "evil" is not so much in the community as it is in ME. Contact with the handicapped residents is healing, transformational. People become "real." Community results from the relationship established among authentic people.
"Elitism is the sickness of us all...Healing takes place at the bottom of the ladder, not at the top."
-Jack H. Bender, author of Disregarded: Transforming the School and Workplace through Deep Respect and Courage