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Deborah Wearing
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17 Sep 2005

Clive Wearing has one of the most extreme cases of amnesia ever known. In 1985, a virus completely destroyed a part of his brain essential for memory, leaving him trapped in a limbo of the constant present. Every conscious moment is for him as if he has just come round from a long coma, an endlessly repeating loop of awakening. A brilliant conductor and BBC music producer, Clive was at the height of his success when the illness struck. As damaged as Clive was, the musical part of his brain seemed unaffected, as was his passionate love for Deborah, his wife.

For seven years he was kept in the London hospital where the ambulance first dropped him off, because there was nowhere else for him to go. Deborah desperately searched for treatments and campaigned for better care. After Clive was finally established in a new special hospital, she fled to America to start her life over again. But she found she could never love another the way she loved Clive. Then Clive's memory unaccountably began to improve, ten years after the illness first struck. She returned to England. Today, although Clive still lives in care, and still has the worst case of amnesia in the world, he continues to improve. They renewed their marriage vows in 2002.

This is the story of a life lived outside time, a story that questions and redefines the essence of what it means to be human. It is also the story of a marriage, of a bond that runs deeper than conscious thought.


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  • Paperback: 400 pages
  • Publisher: Corgi; New Ed edition (17 Sep 2005)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0552771694
  • ISBN-13: 978-0552771696
  • Product Dimensions: 12.9 x 2.5 x 19.8 cm
  • Average Customer Review: 4.2 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (12 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Bestsellers Rank: 181,779 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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"This is a harrowing, haunting and heartening book - a loss-story which is also a love story. It takes us deep inside the question of what it means to be human." (Andrew Motion )

"Sometimes terrifying, sometimes very funny, and always deeply moving, Deborah Wearing's beautifully written testament to a love that survives all the ravages of her husband's amnesia is a book to seize the heart." (Lindsay Clarke, Author Of The Whitbread Winning The Chymical Wedding )

"A remarkable book: absorbing, moving and humbling." (Fay Weldon )

"Loving, terrifying and often extremely funny, an astonishing voyage into the very heart of what makes us human." (Deborah Moggach )

"I had the privilege of filming a documentary about Deborah and Clive and like the rest of the crew I was immediately struck with the extraordinary patience and affection with which Deborah dealt with this appalling ordeal. In Forever Today she takes us further than ever into this remarkable experience." (Jonathan Miller )

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The man who lost his memory: the moving true story of an English musician crippled by total amnesia, by his wife.

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18 of 18 people found the following review helpful
4.0 out of 5 stars Lots of food for thought 13 Jun 2005
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Deborah Wearing relates the story of her husband's amnesia - the worst case known, she says, and it is certainly hard to imagine how anyone else's memory-loss could be worse than Clive Wearing's. I found "Forever Today" quite easy to read, although it is essentially a sad and depressing tale. You can't help but think that in the same situation, you would far rather that your life had not been saved, because the reality of such a "saved" life is too awful to contemplate. The one saving grace of the tale is the continuation of the love Clive feels for his family and his wife in particular, and her assertion that despite having no memory at all, he remains "the same Clive".

This book is well worth reading because of the unusual ground it covers and the considerable food for thought it provides - I had never before really tried to contemplate what life would be like with no memory at all, and no ability to create new memories. It is also fascinating to learn more about the complexity of the human brain, and to share the insights this book provides into brain injuries and their impact.

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4.0 out of 5 stars The human spirit 16 Dec 2005
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This book will move you. It is touching, sad and funny too! If you are interested in the human character then read it and learn. If cognitive function is your bag then it will enlighten you too, whilst making you wipe that tear away! I felt like I was part of Deborah Wearing's family she was so frank and honest. Read this book, its a cracker.
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5.0 out of 5 stars Unforgettable! 30 July 2006
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Some factual books are of a kind that if they were fictional writings, they would be too strange to be believed. This is one of them. It is also that rare factual book, one that you cannot put down because you do not know how it will end and you are gripped by the narrative.

In his forties, Clive Wearing, an expert on ancient music was nearly killed by viral encephalitis. Not diagnosed for a week, he only survived because an anti-viral drug was eventually administered. But a lot of his brain was destroyed, especially the parts giving memory. His amnesia was the worst ever seen. Not all past memory was gone, but he had no capacity for new memories. He never knew how long he had been ill, never recognised people who cared for him professioanlly for years, could not remember food and drink previously taken. yet he could recognise family at times, read music not books, could write and could conduct a choir and play the organ. Initially euphoric, Clive then spent weeks in uncontrolled weeping when he realised something of his predicament. He could also be violent. To her horror, his wife Deborah, only in her twenties, found there were no facilites for ambulant brain damaged people like Clive. So, working in P.R., she was able to get a T.V. documentary made about him and start a charity which eventually led to the provision of specialist facilities to care for Clive. For six years had been in a psychiatric ward. With Clive settled, Deborah left England , divorced and hoped to find another man to give her children. But she came back to England, Clive and an amazing conversion to Christian faith which led to a renewal of marriage vows.

This is simply a spell binding story of tragedy and love. I have never read anything like it.
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5.0 out of 5 stars Incredible
As a psychology student this book was of special interest to me, but it's so well written that anyone can understand what Clive Wearing and his wife went through with his amnesia. Read more
Published 1 month ago by Ash.x
4.0 out of 5 stars Not an easy read
This is not a book for the faint-hearted. I found it heavy going, but well worth the effort. I need not repeat what other reviewers have said about the story—a true one. Read more
Published 4 months ago by Egomet
4.0 out of 5 stars Fascinating and touching
As an NT interested in those who are not, the details of Clive's impairments are fascinating. As a love story this is better than fiction. Deborah is remarkable.
Published 5 months ago by jof
4.0 out of 5 stars The Power of Love
I bought this after reading Before I go to Sleep by SJ WatsonBefore I Go To Sleepand loved it. Clive Wearing was a successful musician working at the BBC when in 1985 a strain of... Read more
Published 5 months ago by J the Bookworm
5.0 out of 5 stars A tragic, terrible, yet positive story
What a wonderful book this is. I first came across the tragic story of Clive Wearing and his family via YouTube, and given an history of family dementia have made it my business to... Read more
Published 6 months ago by E. Bridges
3.0 out of 5 stars Memory Loss
Having read 'Before I go to Sleep' my book group decided to read 'Forever Today' which was a reference for the novel. Read more
Published 10 months ago by Pal
4.0 out of 5 stars Enduring love
I absolutely loved this book and would recommend it to anyone whether you are interested in brain injury or amnesia or not. Read more
Published 15 months ago by johannas
4.0 out of 5 stars Spotless mind, but not all sunshine
In 1985 Clive Wearing, an eminent conductor and musicologist, suffered severe memory loss (permanent and almost total) following an attack of encephalitis. Read more
Published 24 months ago by Bob Sherunkle
5.0 out of 5 stars Forever today, A great read for tomorrow!
This book is a great help for those who have any kind of interest in psychology; I myself bought the book for this reason. A great read, definately recommended!
Published on 14 Oct 2009 by Mr. Jonathan P. Widdowson
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