I found this book so helpful in understanding the differing needs of my children. The book outlines the five languages of love, which are - Words of affirmation, Quality time, Touch, Gifts and Acts of service. Looking at my daughter through the light of this book I have realised that touch and words of affirmation are the types of love which she appreciates most. For my son it's acts of service that he values most. It also made me think about my husband and how he likes specific acts of service like making him a cup of tea. The types of love that they value most fill them up most, which makes sense.