This is an engagingly written biography of an aristocratic hostess, set mainly in the late 19th and early twentieth centure. Ettie Desborough obviously had great charm and wit, and oiled the wheels of society. The book is sympathetic towards her - perhaps too sympathetic towards her two eldest sons, both killed in the Great War and whilst evidently popular with many of their own social circle, were clearly arrogant young men who bullied others, killed animals and regarded Germans as vermin to be shot (although one, Julian Grenfell, wrote some superb poetry). The book does acknowledge some of these downsides. I think the main problem is that the subject of the book was evidently very popular but ultimately didn't DO anything.