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Escape from Paradise: From Third World to First [Paperback]

John Harding , May Chu Harding
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23 Oct 2001
Escape from Paradise is a current true adventure of a woman's escape from an arranged marriage. Set in Singapore, Brunei, Australia, England, and the United States, it involves Asia's famous Tiger Balm family, and a mysteriously wealthy family from Brunei.

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  • Paperback: 476 pages
  • Publisher: IDKPress (23 Oct 2001)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0971092907
  • ISBN-13: 978-0971092907
  • Product Dimensions: 2.9 x 15.1 x 23.2 cm
  • Average Customer Review: 5.0 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (2 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Bestsellers Rank: 799,790 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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A moving memoir that only a woman could have written, it is a unique contribution to the appreciation of a life in Singapore. -- C. V. Devan Nair, Former President of Singapore, May 2002

Escape From Paradise had been banned by the whim of an influential individual, not by the Government of Singapore, and not by the laws of Singapore. -- Hollywood Inside Syndicate, September 2002

It is a remarkable story and so full of intrigue that it reads at times like fiction. -- Jonathan Burnham, President, Talk Miramax Books, 2002

The book is more than just a woman's story; it is a social comment on today's Singapore. -- Hollywood Inside Syndicate, September 2002

This book out-Dallas, Dallas. No one has written so well of the other side of paradise -- Francis T. Seow, Former Solicitor General of Singapore, 2002

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Singapore is a name of a dream, an imaginary vision of the orient of colonial times, of leisurely lives, of verandahs, of all the things it isn't.

There are no clouds on the horizon. Well, almost none—the CIA claims that Singapore serves as a transit point for Golden Triangle heroin going to the West.

Singapore is Chinese. Singapore is safe. Singapore is making money.

It's not that Singapore isn't nice. It's not a particularly interesting or easy place, but it is nice. Singapore is slick on the surface—marble hotel lobbies stretch sky high. It is China in paradise, with a Manhattan skyline, where Chinese autocrats talk about preserving their core values from the onslaught of "pseudo-Western" culture. It is materialism run rampant—the most mercenary of environments—a Chinese dream—a contradictory clear win for Western-style capitalism.

Today’s Singapore has swept the colonialists and its history aside. The British-favored Malays and Indians have all but disappeared. Even the mixed-breed Eurasians—who never had much of a place-have no place now. Singapore’s population of four million is 77 percent Chinese, 14 percent Malay, and 8 percent Indian—the remaining 1 percent is classified as "Others."

Located at the end of the southern tip of the Malaysian Peninsula, less than 100 miles from the equator, Singapore is a small island, only twenty-six miles long, and fourteen miles wide.

In 1819, with the landing of Sir Stamford Raffles on its shores, Singapore became a ward of the British Empire. It remained so, with the exception of the Japanese occupation from 1942 to 1945, until England granted it self-government in 1959 with Lee Kuan Yew becoming Prime Minister. Singapore achieved full independence from the British by becoming a province of Malaysia in 1963. Finally, in 1965 Singapore became a sovereign nation in 1965, when it was expelled from Malaysia for racial issues between the Malays and Chinese.

Lee Kuan Yew served as Prime Minister until 1990 and even now with the specially created position of Senior Minister, remains Singapore’s undisputed ruler.

Most likely, Lee Kuan Yew will be succeeded by his number one son, Lee Hsien Loong, who retired from his position as Brigadier-General of the Singapore Armed Forces to enter politics. Lee Hsien Loong was all of 32 years old at the time.

Singapore is moving fast. I was born there in 1957, when Singapore wasn't even Singapore—it was part of Malaysia. The world I knew as a child, and even as a teenager is a long-gone distant memory.

Most Chinese arrived in Singapore as coolies during the time of British rule. They were permitted to do only the most menial of tasks and were not considered acceptable even as house servants for the British—only Indians and Malays were good enough.

Still, over time, some Singapore Chinese families grew to be wealthy—most did not.

My family arrived in Singapore by a different route. They were not coolies and did not fit any of the popular Chinese stereotypes.

We were not gloomy Joy Luck Club middle-class folks. We had no ancient faded family photographs of destitute peasants to gaze upon with simple pride. We were not humble. We were not obsequious. No one impressed us. No one had more than we did, or showed it off so grandly. We were flamboyant, irreverent, and loud. We came to Singapore from Burma, and arrived in style. We were already rich, very rich—we were the Tiger Balm Kings!
Our business empire grew from one simple product, Tiger Balm, to newspapers in Singapore, Hong Kong, Thailand, Australia, and Canada, and to banks in Singapore and Malaysia.

Our houses, the Haw Par Villa in Singapore, and the Tiger Balm Gardens in Hong Kong are now tourist attractions—free donations from our family for public pleasure and family aggrandizement.

No one had anything quite like what we had—but that was then.


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5.0 out of 5 stars A Must Read Book by All Singaporeans!! 22 Feb 2013
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This is the most fantastic and revealing book ever written by this wonderful Author, exposing all and sundry, the corruption,chicanery, and underhanded dealings that goes on 'behind the scene' as it were. A disgrace to the Singapore Legal Profession and the Judiciary to boot. I had an earlier copy but I have read this over over 10 times now,so it was tattered and torn and had to buy a replacement. It takes pride of place in my library!
I would recommend this book as 'a must' read for all Singaporeans.
I only wish the author would now do an 'update'.. hope the Chung Family is now all dead and her nasty, horrible ex husband is bankrupt and living in eternal and abject destitution. That guy is an absolute bastard!
Tell the author she can now go back to Singapore for a visit. The regime is less dictatorial and authoritarian and on the way out at the next election. I wish Mrs. Harding well and thank her for a wonderful book. She is a genius in my book!!
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5.0 out of 5 stars A must read 25 Aug 2006
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I had just finished reading this book, which was banned by the country the story it was set in, the same one I came from, Singapore. It was a really absorbing book, and I could hardly put it down. Interestingly, it is both a good book and a bad book. I will look at both sides in my review.

Good points:

This book is great as it tells the story of an Asian society `as it was'. The key word here is `was'. Because the ideology portrayed in the book was mainly of the last generation, or of those `old money' type. A number of points illustrated in the book do not apply to most of the modern, and western, way of thinking in Singapore anymore. Another good point about the book is it took on the established authority in Singapore, revealing things that will otherwise never be made known to the public. I really applaud the writer for daring to step out of line and write the book.

Bad points:

The bad point about the book is the author really enjoyed "chinaman bashing". The term "chinaman" refers to someone from China, not Singapore, or as I mentioned above, Chinese men with "old money". Most modern Chinese men do not think or behave as she described in the book. Further more, while the author portrays "chinamen" in a bad light, she had exposed herself to be a typical SPG who got excited and spread her legs for an "ang moh" man. And also just like typical SPG, she views a white man (does not matter where they come from) as a ticket to get out of the country and live in a western country. Strangely I do not get as excited as the author when I first arrived in the UK. While I can also understand her pitiful marriage to a "chinaman" that comes from a family with "old money", it is only her own fault that she was foolish enough to be swept off her feet by a bad person.

Conclusion:

I, like the author, am a "quitter", and therefore I could sympathize with much of her frustration with the Singapore system. I even agree to the points she made about "chinaman". But I strongly feel that she should make it clear that it mainly apply to the last generation, not the current. Women of the current generation mainly work, until the "sit-home-taitai" the author was. Overall it is a good book and reading it made me feel a little homesick. I will strongly recommend it to any Singaporean. It had described Singapore in a way never seen before, without fear from the authorities. It exposes all the scandals happening in high places around the world. Most importantly of all, it is a very true book.
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5.0 out of 5 stars I should have read this earlier! 4 Jun 2012
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This is an eye opener and a must read book. May Chu's story although it is a true story somehow it has the effects of a fictional story all because of the fascinating details, her background and all the colorful characters in her books from family members, lawyers, judges and the events that she had gone through in Singapore. Her true story is unbelievable to the extent that it could be passed off as fictional story!

The writers have reflected perfectly the plight of women who often mistreated by their husbands in Singapore and to have the injustice handed to them by the system that was supposed to protect them. The facts that these women often left helpless with children to care for while fighting uphill divorce battles with little if not at all any support from the system that they have gone to in order to seek help in the first place. All these have been courageously described and revealed through her story. Bravo!
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5.0 out of 5 stars Amongst the best book I have read. 27 April 2006
By Teng Kie Zin - Published on Amazon.com
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Strangely, I understand why there aren't many reviews posted here, especially by Singaporeans. For fear of being on the wrong side with the government I presume.

A most daring truthful book that confirms long held suspicion. Most facts can be independently verified. In fact I chanced upon this book while researching about the Singapore legal system and how our chief justice is appointed by the president on the advice of the Prime Minister. Charming.

I love this book, completed it in a day!
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5.0 out of 5 stars The single best book I have read so far! 12 April 2012
By Joven Chiew S. H - Published on Amazon.com
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Yes, it is really that good. This book is full of real life amazing stories. If you have heard about Tiger Balm, find out more about the Aw family stories here. The book is full of humor too which make it not boring and reading it was like having May Chu sitting next to me telling her life stories after a good dinner. Another good thing is, the stories are not predictable unlike drama you watch on TV. Life itself is unpredictable. It also shows that the world do not operate the same way we think even more so from a tycoon family.

It is THE book I would suggest anyone from any walk of life to read it regardless where you live or your ethnic group. I finished reading this book in 2-3 days, I cannot put it down and if not because I need the light off so my family can sleep I am sure I can finish it in 1 day.

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