Written by a switch, this is an incredibly sensible and sensitive introduction to the world of female submission. It is much more romantic than The New Bottoming Book, and is aimed specifically at women (in a monogamous relationship). This book will give you all the reassurance you will ever need that you are allowed submissive tendencies. It's perhaps a little lovey-dovey in the Sex Magick sense, but who cares? With sections on everything from exploring your submissive persona, to role-play, exploring your 'rosebud', a lesson on how to give a great strip tease, shoes, how to be a human ashtray without burning yourself, instructions on how to shave your bits without causing nasty rashes, and a whole load more. It is a great guide to what's out there; it's up to you what you do with the information once you've got it. None of the info is a revelation in itself, but it's rare to find it all in one book. Even if you're not really into S&M, it's worth reading it for the confidence about your sensuality that it instils and the advice on making your fantasies become a reality. I've seen this book for over £price in the shops, but it's worth that, so you're getting a good deal on Amazon.