Bought this book, after dropping our eldest at Uni for the first time. Instead of arguing with my husband, I got this book on kindle. Great answers and advice for very hard questions you thought the answer was divorce. My mum got divorced and said to me that there was no other way. I said if I believed her I had no hope for my marriage. This book got many answers on what my part in my marriage is. It takes time to turn around but it is worth it. It saved a big argument with my husband that night, I put the book into practice straight away and I had a good night sleep. I finished reading it, recommended to friends. Good tool to give advice to people hurting. Tackles issues that other books don't.