Okay, here is another book that was given to me as a joke for my birthday! What is with guys these days? I went through my fortys and fiftys working two jobs to get my kids through college. I knew my responsibilies, and when I leave this good earth, I will have the knowledge that I left behind my legacy of hard work and honesty with my children. THAT is the grand prize at the end of the fair. Did I ever have feelings of regret? NOT ONCE! Did I ever look at my wife of 30 years with doubt? NOT ONCE! Yes, women, there are good men out there that don't dwell on things that are selfish and basically frivolous. Yes, there are men out there that will treat you like gold. Don't look for the touchy feely guys. They have way too much time on their hands. Oh, and for the guys who read this book? Grow up! Do some good before you die. Make the ones who love you and care for you happy. Believe me, when you look down that road, every bit of kindness and respect you have shown others will be your guiding light, and it will bring you the ultimate peace at the days end. Start by bringing your wife a flower, and telling her she is the most important thing in your life. Next, hug your kids, and tell them to remember that hug for the rest of their lives. Next, tell yourself that you are a man, and that you are happy and content. If that doesn't work, go down to the VA hospital, and talk to some real men! You think life is hard now? Listen to what they went through, and be glad you are living the life you have. You are the only one who can make yourself happy, and there is happiness wherever you look. I always find mine in the smiling face of my granchild, and the loving smile of my wife. If she doesn't feel like smiling? Tickle the heck out of her! Life is truly a joy especially when you know that you've done right by the ones who love you the most.