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Death... And How To Survive It: A unique, practical and uplifting guide to coming to terms with the loss of your partner
 
 
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  • Paperback: 288 pages
  • Publisher: Vermilion (7 April 2005)
  • Language English
  • ISBN-10: 0091902576
  • ISBN-13: 978-0091902575
  • Product Dimensions: 1.9 x 12.7 x 20.3 cm
  • Average Customer Review: 4.7 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (15 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Bestsellers Rank: 18,776 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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"'He passed away', 'She's gone', 'He died'..."

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The must-have guide for anyone who has lost a spouse or partner

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48 of 48 people found the following review helpful
Massively helpful 15 April 2005
Format:Paperback
How many guides are there to coping with the death of a partner that deal with both the practicalities and the emotional trauma in such a straightforward, honest and sympathetic way? This book, based on the hugely successful website, is incredibly helpful to people trying to make their way through the dreadful fog of grief while coping with day-to-day life.

My own experience of being widowed relatively young is relevant here, as I referred to Kate's website constantly in the early days. Her advice at each stage of the process is practical, succinct and honest. The book goes further, as it is intended for any poor soul who faces this disaster - male or female. Each chapter deals with a specific stage of the loss, grieving process, and all the mass of paperwork and general 'coping with life' that has to be done. There is advice about coping with the funeral, dealing with the belongings of your partner (basically don't do anything that doesn't feel right or that you're not ready for) and supporting your children.

Perhaps the most helpful aspect of this book is its basic message - an uplifting one, that life can - and will - eventually return. Kate refers to her own experiences and those of people with whom she's corresponded, so you never feel that you are reading any 'psychobabble' but genuine peoples' stories and advice.

And there is humour too. No book on death ought to be depressing - you need help, but you don't need to be made to feel any worse than you do already. Interspersed with her advice are Kate's 'diary entries' which are often likely to make you laugh out loud, and what can be a greater gift than to be able to raise smiles among those who feel that they will never laugh again?

I would urge anyone in my situation to get this book. It's really 'from the horse's mouth' and as the blurb says, it's unique as it is genuinely practical.

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27 of 27 people found the following review helpful
By Turquan
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This is so helpful to anyone who has lost a partner. At whatever stage you might be in terms of your grief, there is something for you here. From the early days when your brain is like soup and you need practical advice, through to a time when you might contemplate leaving the house for an evening out, there is a chapter for you.

You don't need sugary words or psychological explanations of the grieving process - you need clear, straightforward advice and this is what you get with this book.

I think it is also required reading for anyone who might be trying to help a friend or family member coping with the loss of their partner as this will help you to understand a process that is thankfully outside the experiences of most people until later in life.

I am widowed and this book will end up being as well thumbed as my 'Delia'!

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20 of 20 people found the following review helpful
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if a friend has lost their partner and you don't know what to do or say, buy this book for them, make the recipe on page 75 and take it round. So many people say at the funeral 'if there's anything i can do just let me know', This book makes it easy to understand why the person who is grieving never does 'let you know' and helps you to realise just what they might be going through. Buy it for someone else and be a real friend before you need to buy it for your self. This book is refreshing, honest, real and full of helpful information. If you cannot cook, buy a take-away and take it round, take the children out for the day or take away a basket of ironing and return it done; do anything for them that makes that day a tiny bit easier. This book will help you make a difference.
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Outstanding
I could not have got through without this book. I found it the only decent advice available in book form for a young widow (29). Read more
Published 28 days ago by Heather Windell
Most of it may apply to your experience
don't buy this and assume that you will find the answer to every minor or major crisis that you come across, it is only a guide from one person's experience with some input from... Read more
Published 7 months ago by H. J. Parker
Hard to relate to the writer's world
I bought this book having read lots of positive reviews but was disappointed with it. The author is very keen to tell you how you will feel based on how she felt. Read more
Published 8 months ago by Bright Shark
Money well spent
Three months after my father passed away, I bought this book for my mother hoping that it would help her in some way. Read more
Published 9 months ago by Derec
Death... and how to survive it
I bought this for a close friend who had recently lost her husband. She said it made her feel normal again and realised that she wasn't alone. Read more
Published 14 months ago by Lou
Death and how to survive it
I used these as part of my course, very useful and relevant, easy to read and analyse.
Published 20 months ago by B. Wilson
AN EXCELLENT BOOK
I LOST MY HUSBAND 12 WEEKS AGO - HE WAS ONLY 52 AND JUST PASSED AWAY IN HIS FAVOURITE CHAIR. HE WAS NOT EVEN ILL. Read more
Published on 25 April 2010 by Mrs. S. L. Allen
Thank you Kate.
This book was inspirational after the death of my husband. I could relate to everything she said and I soon realised that I was not alone. The title is very fitting. Read more
Published on 21 April 2010 by B. L. Hunter
A down to earth practical guide
This book is brilliant for anyone who is unlucky enough to be in the situation where their partner has died. Read more
Published on 27 July 2009 by Mrs. S. French
Excellent book for those who have lost their partner
I purchased this book purely because of the previous reviews. No-one wants to find themselves in the position of having recently lost their partner - but some of us do. Read more
Published on 6 Oct 2008 by J. Berry
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