This memoir leaves the reader with questions rather than answers. It explores the complex world of female sexuality from the viewpoint of a real woman, with a courageous intention of disclosing the truth, warts and all, and helping other women to come closer to fulfilment. It would prompt some very interesting discussions if selected for a book club! The people in this tale come across vividly, from the first love rediscovered online years later to the confident businessman who unlocks the door to a new world. Although the book is very honest, I did not find it shocking. It is about thoughts and emotions, not body parts. Not suitable for those in search of titillation!