After a very mild, but poorly handled (by me) confrontation at work, my boss recommended that I read this book. He felt it would help me learn tools to deal with the little squabbles that happen everyday in a hospital environment. It did- and also helped almost immediately with a personal problem as well.
I had an altercation with a landlord soon after completing this book. He kept trying to make the conversation unsafe- escalating and blaming me for things that he had not completed properly. I found myself using a few of the techniques from the book! It worked! Every time he escalated I identified it from the book and brought the conversation back to a "safe" area focused on the most important issue. By the end of the conversation, we were both calm and had at least identified the problem (step one of solving it!)
I immediately bought a copy for my younger brother- who had just been promoted to management in a sales job. He's reading it now on his commute in the form of a book on CD. I'm reading Crucial Conversations right now by the same author. This book is immediately applicable and does indeed deliver the promised techniques, with very excellent and very readable examples, for many of the squabbles we run into during the course of living.