This is the first book about relationships that my husband and I both find accurate. He was the depressive/passive/DECEIVER and I was the dominant/strong/cheery/DENIER. I can't believe how true the book was for us. I never understood before how a twenty year marriage that looked good to everone else could suddenly fall apart. "Crazy Time" has given me a clear understanding of the rift in our marriage, and new compassion for the struggle my husband has been going through. There are no 'bad guys' here. I'm sad, but I don't hate him. Our marriage may be over, but our friendship and our own lives are not over, and I thank Ms. Trafford.