I loved this book - for its warmth, its honesty, its charm but especially for its old-fashioned belief in the sanctity of marriage - with the writer being a voice in the wilderness in these days of easy living and loving.
What emerges, via the interviews conducted with countless couples - in all sorts of relationships - is a realistic portrayal of marriage - that yes, it is hard, yes, they have their ups and downs but that, when all is said and done, they are still the most rewarding and stable of relationships.
The key to success, it appears, is to have a sense of humour, a forgiving nature and a structure to negotiate with your wife or husband.
Not exactly Einstein, of course, but the book is entertaining enough to make the reader look into their own relationships, to analyse where they are going right or wrong. Ultimately, most relationships come down to the age old clash between a woman's hormones and a man's ego - it is that simple.
If you like this but want to read a more personal (and often humorous) account of how a marriage can succeed, I also recommend the book
One Love Two Colours: The Unlikely Marriage of a Punk Rocker and His African Queen by Margaret Oshindele (my dear wife!), a book that shows how love can survive against the odds.