A friend of mine gave me this book to help me come to terms with the loss of my cat; my cat had been with me for 18 years and it was hard to imagine life without her. This book helped me put things in perspective and now instead of mourning I'm celebrating the years we had together and in time I feel I'll be ready to have another pet. Thank you Mr Grey for writing a book about a subject that is often ignored; the loss of a pet can be incredibly hard to deal with. I'd recommend this book to every pet owner.