Falling in love by its description represents a fall, from what, normality? John D. Moore's fascinating work, 'Confusing obsession with love' allows a glimpse into one of the faces of love. It is a casptivating read and with his own admission of suffering from the condition he writes about makes it a must for anyone interested in the nature of love. Most of us learn about love initially through our parents or carers and then via relationships with others in adolescence. After reading Moore's work the question remains, 'do I love or do I want to control?' Loving and protecting, loving and cherishing, loving and longing are possibly parts of how we love but in certain individuals love turns into a punishing anxiety and obsession. The book is a wonderful learning experience that to many may come well after those adolescent times after stepping into love's mysterious currents, that being said I highly recommend John D Moore's monograph to anyone interested in love, in love or wondering whether they are in love.