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  • Paperback: 240 pages
  • Publisher: Profile Books (7 Nov. 2013)
  • ISBN-10: 1781251967
  • ISBN-13: 978-1781251966
  • Product Dimensions: 13.5 x 2 x 21.6 cm
  • Average Customer Review: 4.2 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (6 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Bestsellers Rank: 425,306 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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Chamorro-Premuzic has rethought confidence - a fresh, more balanced, approach, presented in a well-researched, accessible, and, indeed, enjoyable format. I like this book: a lot (Robert Kelsey)

Confidence nails it - read this book and you will never look at the concept of self-esteem the same way again (Laura Vanderkam)

I can't remember the last time I finished reading a book and wanted to applaud. Confidence is a life-changing book - it will convince you (Heidi Grant Halvorson)

Maybe you have always intuited, as most sensitive people do, that all the talk about boosting self-confidence and raising self-esteem is not the answer to success or happiness. This charming and thoroughly fact-based book will give you the evidence to back your wisdom, that being kind and competent works best. (Elaine Aron, author of 'The Highly Sensitive Person' and 'The Undervalued Self')

Persuasive ... fantastically sensible (Lucy Kellaway Financial Times)

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This startling re-evaluation of the role of self-belief in success explores why increasing your confidence is less important than building your competence.

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13 of 16 people found the following review helpful By Robert Morris TOP 500 REVIEWER on 23 Oct. 2013
Format: Hardcover
In this thoughtful and thought-provoking book, Tomas Chamorro-Premuzic observes, "The main difference between people who lack confidence and those who don't is that the former are unable (or unwilling) to distort reality in their favor. That's right, the successful distortion of reality is the chief underlying reason so many people don't experience low confidence when they should. Whereas pessimism leads to realism, optimism promotes the fabrication of alternative realities -- lying, not to others, but to themselves."

In this context, I am reminded of Bud Tribble's comments about Steve Jobs, quoted by Walter Isaacson in his biography of the insanely great innovator: "Steve has a reality distortion field. In his presence, reality is malleable. He can convince anyone of practically anything. It wears off when he's not around, but it makes it hard to have realistic schedules." According to Apple co-founder, Steve Wozniak, "His reality distortion is when he has an illogical vision of the future, such as telling me that I could design the BREAKOUT game in just a few days. You realize that it can't be true, but he somehow makes it true." Debi Coleman recalls, "He reminded me of Rasputin. He laser-beamed in on you and didn't blink. It didn't matter if he was serving purple Kool-Aid. You drank it." Isaacson adds, "At the root of the reality distortion field was Jobs's belief that the rules didn't apply to him." In this and in countless other respects, Steve Jobs was indeed one-of-a-kind.

For most of us, Chamorro-Premuzic asserts -- and I agree -- that we should not aspire to have high confidence, but to have high competence. If we focus on achievement, it will increase self-confidence naturally diminishing low self-esteem, insecurity, and self-doubt.
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3 of 4 people found the following review helpful By J. Bruce on 30 Dec. 2013
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I found this book extremely useful in debunking many of the myths around 'confidence' being the sole (or primary) driver of success. Dr Chamorro-Premuzic speaks to anyone who has been told that their lack of confidence is a negative attribute; he sets out a valuable insight as to why we should strive primarily for competence (rather than confidence)and provides some practical tools as to how we might achieve this. I found his writing very accessbile and entertaining (for example, his use of references to current, well-known personalities) and I really felt as if he was on the reader's side throughout. In many ways, this is the book that I've been waiting to read for a long time, and I would recommend it to anyone who has an interest in this area.
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5 of 9 people found the following review helpful By Jessica on 8 Dec. 2013
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Unlike many authors who write on confidence, this author argues that confidence is not always a good thing. That is an original and interesting argument.

The book covers plenty of examples of people who have high confidence (and perhaps shouldn't have done) as well as how actually being competent is the best route to confidence.

Unfortunately, I simply found the book a bit stiff and hard work. I felt that I *should* read the book because I might learn something from it rather than *wanting* to read it because I enjoyed it. Other readers may disagree, but my opinion was that more editing or the help of a ghost writer may have helped the book to be a more entertaining read.
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