Great book, packed with practical tips for managing life with Asperger's. Its easy - and maybe the de-fault position - to feel isolated and hopeless when you're an adult with Aspergers. And yet the experiences that are shared so vividly with the reader in this book break the aloneness and show a real way forward. The take home messages seem to be that having Asperger's does not exclude finding love, friendships, success and real independence. You just have to want it and be prepared to work for it (and laugh at yourself when you mess it up a few times). The author has written an interesting, informative, honest and helpful book for anyone struggling to cope with day to day life with asperger's, and it is well worth recommending to anyone who is in this position.