From poverty in Glasgow to paradise in Tuscany - John Fraser vividly describes over seventy years of his eventful life.
There are evocative, sometimes jabbing, memories of childhood - a sweet mother, alcoholic father prone to epileptic fits. They died at forty eight within six weeks of the other. Indefatigable Aunt Gatty, profoundly deaf and full of worldly wisdom, forever treadled at the sewing machine to raise money for the family and to pay for John's education - the essential stepping stone for all that followed.
Anecdotes abound of the exhilarating years of screen and stage fame, the many stars encountered (quite a few on self-destruct). Included are Hedy Lamarr (seriously egotistical and disturbed), Bette Davis ("a swaying hooded cobra", responsible for the book's funniest chapter), Rudolf Nureyev (a passionate lover, but a bit of a scruff).
John Fraser writes frankly of his sexuality, the relief when a 1967 change in the law meant no more fear of blackmail and prosecution. He admires those who came out into the open and regrets Dirk Bogarde's life was a lie to its very end. (An extraordinary revelation tells what Bogarde kept in the loft to fulfil his fantasies.)
Realizing he would never be one of the "acting greats", Fraser changed course. As "a travelling vagabond", part of a tiny group, he for sixteen years performed extracts from Shakespeare in over sixty countries - the reactions enthusiastic. Cue for tales of soldier ants on the rampage in Nigeria, disturbing scenes in Baghdad's Golden Mosque, an excruciating evening in the company of geishas with acne and dandruff. Especially involving is his account of Sicilian builder Calogero and black prostitute Kofo - she for so long at the mercy of unscrupulous sex traders. Their eventual wedding provides one of the book's many highlights.
Witty, self-mocking, perceptive, at times barbed - this, throughout, is an entertaining read. Despite all the colourful people and exotic places, the image that most lingers is of Aunt Gatty at her sewing machine. Movingly John Fraser is ever mindful of his debt....
Much food for thought. Recommended.