Review
Weekly Telegraph, December 2002
Product Description
From the Author
Written by expats for expats this book is the catalyst you have been waiting for. --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.
About the Author
Excerpted from Career in Your Suitcase 2, A by . Copyright © 2002. Reprinted by permission. All rights reserved.
Ever since the publication of Richard Bolles book, What Color is Your Parachute, people have begun to believe work is more than just a salary. Bolles writes both for people who are out of work and for those weary of work lacking in fulfilment and meaning. His book provides readers with the blueprint for a journey of personal and vocational self discovery.
Bolles recommends that we think of our work as the expression of our mission in life and he supplies us with many inventive exercises to help us identify the nature of this mission.
In the following exercises and suggestions youll find a mixture of activities and inspiration I hav picked up over the last ten years or so. Each has merit. Some ideas are of my own invention, some were inspired by other people.
Getting Started
It is not surprising that many people neglect the difficult task of self scrutiny. After all, where do you begin? How do you get started? How do you know youre on the right track? And how do you keep yourself accountable for the results? Here are several suggestions to launch you on your own voyage of self discovery.
Buy a notebook
Prepare to do a lot of soul searching, thinking and writing. Buy yourself a large, lined notebook, preferably spiral bound, in which to write your thoughts and exercises. Choose a large one, about A4 or foolscap in size. Try not to succumb to doing this on a computer. If you want to be creative, its more productive to have a pen in your hand than a keyboard beneath your fingers. Computers use the left, logical, side of your brain. A notebook and pen will use the creative, right, side.
Make a space
Give yourself permission to make a space in which to explore. This may mean you have to give up something else in your life to provide time for your voyage of discovery. Ideas will only come to you if you have the space in your head in which to think and the space in your life in which to take action.
Practitioners of feng shui recognise the value of clearing clutter from their lives. Space clearing, clutter clearing and life laundry can help you to make the mental space in which to explore your dreams. Try to tidy your workspace at the end of each day, so that each morning youre faced with a clear desk. Put your files and papers behind closed doors and remove mirrors from areas where they reflect clutter.
So, create yourself a mental and physical space to give a positive start to your journey.
Make a team
Self assessment is very effective when youre able to talk with others who can provide perspective, balance and insight. Solitary self assessments may invite self delusion and frustration and the finding out what you want to find out syndrome. We all need help in order to see ourselves accurately. Self assessment is an interactive process. When someone else is there to probe and challenge it stokes our imaginations and self reflection.
Recruit supporters who can be on your success team. Find people who will give you permission to find out who you are, and who believe in you. You need to be encouraged and praised. If your closest family members are not with you in this, then prepare for a rough but I hope not unbearable ride. Best of all, find some friends you know well, who can join you on the journey, and meet or send emails regularly to keep each other motivated and on track.
If you cant build your own team of supporters, you should seriously consider hiring a coach or careers counsellor. I know from painful experience that I wont go to the gym if Im alone. Its too easy to let myself off. Involving someone else makes it much easier to make a commitment.
You could always kick off with a Blue Sky Party. I use blue sky to refer to those magical times when we discuss dreams and make plans with someone else. Its a time for brainstorming - or random-entry listings as it is now politically correct to call them. It is a time for ideas. But I also take blue sky to refer to the blue sky that can emerge from the clouds, and the hope it brings. A summers day, with a blue sky above, is something many of us, particularly the Northern Europeans, long for. Divide the time you have available by the number of guests you invite and take turns to blue sky with each other.
Make a start
Take that first step. Start doing something right now, even if it is only for half an hour. Dont set yourself up for failure. Be realistic and do what will work for you. But start now. Once you begin, and you see patterns and insights emerging, youll find it hard to stop.