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Bullies, Bigmouths and So-called Friends [Paperback]

Jenny Alexander (Author)
4.6 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (29 customer reviews)
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Publication Date: 2 Feb 2006 | Series: Bullies, Bigmouths and So-Called Friends
Most books about bullying tell children how to act without addressing how they feel. But the usual advice to 'ignore it' or 'say something smart' is doomed to fail, as you can't act brave and confident if you feel stressed and helpless inside.



Jenny Alexander's approach is to develop readers' psychological defences. Through an entertaining mix of exercises, quizzes and fictional scenarios, she combines common sense with simple cognitive therapy techniques, to build up children's self esteem. Her tone is humorous and upbeat, but always sensitive to the reader's feelings.



This new, updated edition takes account of recent technologies such as texting, MSN and bluejacking, which are increasingly abused by bullies.

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  • Paperback: 128 pages
  • Publisher: Hodder Children's Books; 2 edition (2 Feb 2006)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0340911840
  • ISBN-13: 978-0340911846
  • Product Dimensions: 13.1 x 1 x 19.7 cm
  • Average Customer Review: 4.6 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (29 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Bestsellers Rank: 2,368 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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Unique in teaching children how to boost their self-esteem and so prevent bullying from affecting their lives. (Independent 2003-06-01)

This is an important book for youngsters who want to become bully-proof. (The Funday Times 1899-12-30)

This brill book is full of tips on how to build up your confidence and look after yourself. We like! (Bubble 2003-09-01)

At last, a book that really helps you to deal with the people in your life who are making you miserable. (Bookseller 2003-06-01)

An ideal book to be used in schools. (ChildLine in Schools 2003-06-01)

The ideal book for teachers or counsellors... as well as children themselves. (Education Today 2003-07-01)

Offers simple strategies for building up confidence so that taunts and teasing have fewer insecurities to feed on. (Sainsbury's Magazine 2003-09-01)

There is much in this book that children might find of real help. (Books for Keeps 2003-09-01)

From the Publisher

A fresh new approach based on self esteem.

Perfect for Citizenship KS1-2 (6-11 years) where pupils have to use 'an appropriate text, [to] explore the emotions that surround bullying.'

Aimed at 9-12s, the peak time for bullying in school.

Bullying is a subject of perennial concern to parents and children.

Quirky illustrations complement the text beautifully.

Author has been endorsed by ChildLine and Susan (Feel the Fear) Jeffers. --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.
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33 of 33 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Just starting secondary school. A MUST 29 Sep 2009
By E. Child
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I purchased this book for my 11 year old son who has just started secondary school. He started having a few problems with some close friends and however hard I tried to help with advice I don't think it was sinking in. So I purchased this book, which is written for the child it is easy to read with some cartoon style formats and with examples of situations and the best way to deal with them. I have also tried to read it (my son kept taking the book back!)so I can give the same advice. My son said it is a good book and has definately helped him. I would recommend this book.
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111 of 113 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars I love this book! 5 Nov 2003
By liz kessler
Format:Paperback
Bullies, Bigmouths and So-called Friends should be on the school syllabus. Every child could benefit from reading it and doing the exercises. Not only is this book absolutely packed to the rafters with fantastic advice - it's also a great read. The language is down to earth, totally appealing and funny. It made me laugh out loud as well as examine my behaviour and attitudes. It's filled with great exercises and quizzes that make you feel more as though you're flicking through your favourite magazine. It's not only young people who can benefit from it either. I've already found myself putting some of the ideas into practice in my everyday life. Everything about this book makes you want to read it and take note - you can even choose your own cover! (Pink for girls, blue for boys!) Next step should be a cover for adults. EVERYONE can learn something from this book!
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26 of 26 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Should be Compulsary in schools. My Money has been well spent!! 9 May 2011
By suki
Format:Paperback
As mentioned by someone else, this book should be a must in schools. My daughter (who's 10) is really struggling in school and as with most parents I gave futile advice (like ignore it), and it didn't help mainly because I felt pretty powerless myself because I didn't have the answers), and the school did a bit but not enough. So I ordered this book. I cannot thank the author enough for her wise words!! This book gives answers beyond "hit them back" or "ignore them", which seems to be the standard answer depending which camp you're in, In a language that's easy for children to understand. Jenny Alexander's book is very clever, funny, and really is written for children but I couldn't put it down myself! Amongst the explanations of what happens during bullying or teasing, It gives good examples of typical situations and looks at how to handle these problems in a way that doesn't put even more pressure on an already mountainous problem. There are some fantastic exercises that help children (and adults) see how they view themselves and others around them. I can't recommend this book enough. My daughter read a third of it in one evening, and has insisted on taking it to guided reading. "It's like the book is reading my mind." is what my daughter has said so far about it. I think it is going to really help her look at hostile situations in a different way and also look at herself in a far more positive light. I have a queue of parents (and the head) who want to borrow this book! If you have a child who is being teased or bullied or simply struggles to know what to say when somebody says something mean to him/her, this book is definately for them (and you!).
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Most Recent Customer Reviews
3.0 out of 5 stars It's good enough for a teenager
I wish it had more scernios so that my daughter could relate it to a situation she is in at school. It would also be better if there were less quizes.
Published 23 days ago by Andrea Herbert
5.0 out of 5 stars Good book
This is a good book for youngsters to read. It can be read as a stand alone book but would be even more useful as a talking point with a supportive adult in order to learn... Read more
Published 26 days ago by G.J.
5.0 out of 5 stars It it the best book ever
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Published 2 months ago by witchycoo
4.0 out of 5 stars useful
This book has some many uses, I bought a copy for a friend who has young children going through bullying. Read more
Published 2 months ago by karen
4.0 out of 5 stars Is there a second book?
My son said he felt the book was unfinished and wanted to read on and read more...... is there a second book?
Published 2 months ago by Mrs. Victoria Webster
5.0 out of 5 stars This is a must if your child is feeling bullied or isolated at school
I purchased this for my 15 year old daughter who felt isolated at school because a friend had stopped talking to her. Read more
Published 3 months ago by delghted
5.0 out of 5 stars Lifechanging
This is really well written. Easy to read, makes sense to young or old, and makes some very helpful points.
Published 4 months ago by Books Galore
1.0 out of 5 stars Uninspired
Bought this for my son who was suffering a bit on the playground. It is very American and a bit obvious and patronising. Didn't even bother to show it to him.
Published 4 months ago by Jonnyforever
5.0 out of 5 stars Great
Love this book, with the other one; How 2B happy, very useful for kids, teens and me too.
Keep it handy and keep going back to it.
Published 4 months ago by bookdragon
4.0 out of 5 stars Bullies Bigmouths and so called Friends
Very good book to read my son is really enjoing it and he said "good book dad and thank you"
Published 5 months ago by Kumar K
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