I've read hundreds of books and articles on Polish-Jewish relations, published in several different countries and languages. In that avalanche, Michael C. Steinlauf's "Bondage to the Dead: Poland and the Memory of the Holocaust" stands out. It is one of the most fair.
"Bondage" is the best one-volume introduction to Polish-Jewish relations in the post-Holocaust era. There is an amazing amount of information, treated swiftly, deftly, and responsibly. Much of the material is from underground or hard-to-find sources. If you don't read Steinlauf, you may miss this goldmine.
Not just persons interested in Polish-Jewish relations would benefit from this book. Anyone interested in the human psyche under the worst conditions imaginable will find much to challenge, sadden, and, ultimately, inspire.
Writing about Polish-Jewish relations is hard. Both Poles and Jews have a tradition of disputativeness. David Ben Gurion is said to have said, "Two Jews, three opinions." Poles are similar. Debate, verging into contrariness, is a value. No matter what you say about Polish-Jewish relations, there is a Pole or a Jew who will stand on a chair and shout that you are completely wrong, and voicing some conspiracy theory.
Traditional disputativeness was exacerbated by the unparalleled suffering endured during the Holocaust. Had the Shoah not taken place in Poland, and had Poles "merely" endured what the Nazis and Soviets did to them, Poles would be acknowledged as one of the most martyred, and heroic, peoples in history. But, even as Poles were being rounded up into camps like Auschwitz, tortured, and murdered, even as Polish churches, museums, and even factories and forests were being methodically destroyed, even as Polish children were being gassed or deported, Jews were being annihilated. That planned, and almost completed, total annihilation of Jews has caused the world to be less aware of Polish suffering.
In the interwar era, between WW I and II, various factors, outlined by Steinlauf, contributed to a rise of unprecedented anti-Semitism in Poland. This historic "perfect storm" -- so contrary to Poland's tradition of tolerance -- could not have occurred at a worse time. America, overwhelmed by immigration, responded with Scientific Racism, and closed its doors to Jews. And Hitler was just next door, in Germany.
Poles and Jews are performers on a world stage. Their audience: Americans and Western Europeans -- whose leaders responded all too late to the Holocaust, and where the "dumb Polack" stereotype impedes understanding -- have often been eager to make profoundly unhelpful and unintelligent comments. One example, cited by Steinlauf, is the tendency for even canonical newspapers like the "New York Times" to refer to "Polish concentration camps." Steinlauf also points out that Poland was effectively betrayed and abandoned by its Western allies at Yalta.
Many "isms" are at play here: Fascism, Racism, Zionism, Catholicism, Communism, Judaism, Nationalism. People who have a problem with Christianity use Polish failures during the Holocaust as a cudgel to beat Christians. Propagandists who wanted to support the post-war Soviet hegemony over Poland point to the Kielce pogrom as proof that Poles are beasts who can't govern themselves. Polish nationalists won't allow any mention of Poles' failures.
People more deeply wedded to the triumph of their own particular worldview than to truth have used isolated, decontextualized facts of 20th century Polish-Jewish interaction to support their own worldview, and have ignored facts that might weaken their worldview. Steinlauf struggles, and largely succeeds, to present all pertinent facts, and to let truth, rather than any given worldview, predominate.
During WW II, as Steinlauf recounts here, some Poles did hand Jews over to Nazis; some Poles did take advantage of "post-Jewish" properties; some Poles did respond with approval to the extermination of the Jews. Steinlauf is ever careful to report that some Poles, at great risk to themselves, helped Jews. That being acknowledged, something else must be acknowledged -- Poles witnessed the most notorious and methodical genocide in history. Steinlauf asks, "What impact did this horrible witness have on Poles?"
Steinlauf draws on the work of psychiatrist Robert Jay Lifton, who, as Steinlauf writes, "has devoted decades to studying the effects of massive, traumatic exposure to death in various situations including the Holocaust" (57). Lifton wrote of a "death imprint" that imposes itself on the psyches of "survivors of massive death trauma." "Death guilt" "arises from the encounter with a situation in which the possibilities for physical and even psychic response are nonexistent." Steinlauf quotes Lifton: "one feels responsible for what one has not done, for what one has not felt, and above all for the gap between that physical and psychic inactivation and what one felt called upon ...to do and feel" (57). Psychic numbing and a repetition compulsion follow.
The book does not focus exclusively on Lifton's theories and their application to Polish-Jewish relations. Lifton's theories, though, do offer Steinlauf's understanding of how and why some Poles have behaved, in the post-Holocaust era, in a way that defies outsiders' understanding. Why, for example, did Poles who saved Jews so often choose to keep that fact hidden?
In the end, this book is valuable to anyone interested in plumbing the depths of the human psyche. During WW II, Poles and Jews lived the worst of the human experience. How did they respond? This book reports the worst, but it also reports the best. As this book shows, courageous Poles, both Jewish and non-Jewish, like Wladyslaw Bartoszewski, Jan Blonski, Czeslaw Milosz, and Adam Michnik, have been confronting Poland's nightmarish 20th century legacy not only since the end of WW II, but even during that war. Their testimony defies the self-congratulatory Western insistence, so often heard in response to J. T. Gross' "Neighbors," that Poles are nothing more than stereotypical brutes who require the guidance of more developed peoples to deal with their own history.
In the end, the heroes mentioned above and others like them, and Steinlauf's compassionate, fair approach, make this book an inspiring read.