I've read a number of books since losing my daughter a few months ago. This is the book I found most useful. It is written by a group of 9 bereaved mums plus a professional (non-bereaved) editor. This worked well - as the book was clear and well written - and pulled together the disparate views of the group of mums - you had a sense of how different mothers responded to stuff differently, which I found really helpful. Structure was vey easy to deal with - eg. a chapter on how losing a child affected intimate relationship made lots of generic, sensible points that applied to everyone - as we all have initimate relationships. Other books I've read have tended to divide chapters into categories like - affects on sibling etc... which don't apply to everyone. All in all, definitely woth a read.