As a psychiatrist, I found Nancy Friday's latest book, BEYOND MY CONTROL, to be an eye opening study of how advancements of women's equality, gay rights, and the sexual revolution from the 1960's has affected our sexual fantasies. The fantasies, though often erotic, are an inside look into the mind of the individual, their motivations, and a new attitude of openness in a quickly changing time. Particularly interesting to me were the internet entries showing the ease in which our once forbidden desire are now readily shared and acted out. Nancy Friday's thoughtful take on the affect of ease in which we can navigate a new sexual world is intelligent, insightful, thought provoking and filled with humor. It is a great entry to a life of study on the subject.