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Bengali Girls Don't: Based on a True Story (Memoirs of a Muslim Daughter)
 
 

Bengali Girls Don't: Based on a True Story (Memoirs of a Muslim Daughter) [Kindle Edition]

L.A. Sherman
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Praise for Bengali Girls Don't

"I've laughed, cried and relived some of my past through your words. Painfully beautiful."
-- Summer Yasmin, writer and blogger at TwoMangoes.com  

"Wow! Bengali Girls DO . . . realize the American Dream, that is. It's a money-plot with everything desirable in it, tears and laughter and a wonderful ending."
-- André Jute, author of STIEG LARSSON Man, Myth & Mistress

"Your book looks great."
 -- Anjali Banerjee, author of Imaginary Men and Invisible lives
 
"I like the style. Interesting the way she moves backward, forward. I like it."
-- Don Bruns, author of Too Much stuff and Jamaica Blue 

"What an interesting--sometimes near tragic--life. The US of A really is a place where dreams can come true . . ."
-- Alan Nayes, author of Gargoyles and The Unnatural 

"Thank you so much L.A. for sharing your brave story - - thanks for creating awareness!"
--Pamala Kennedy Chestnut, author of More Than Rice


Overview of Bengali Girls Don't:

Tells a triumphant story of a young woman achieving her own personal freedom after enduring years of oppression. You will travel with Luky to Bangladesh and England (and back again) while experiencing her painful journeys and betrayal by those closest to her. Her experiences will provoke an emotional response that causes the reader to rally behind Luky. --Nicole Renguso, Hillsborough County Chair at The Children's Movement of Florida

A modern day Cinderella story about the author Luky and her incredible journey from her birth during Bangladesh's liberation war to the present. Her desperation to be a 'normal teenager' turned into a nightmare when she was betrayed by her parents and forced into an arranged marriage with an older man at age 15. My heart ached when I read what horrendous conditions she endured. Her descriptive writing had me visualizing everything she suffered through. I was amazed at Luky's strength and determination she used to survive each day in the hope of one day being home again. This is one story that will forever be etched in my mind and heart. --Maureen Ruehl 


5 out of 5 stars

"Your story has touched too many strings on my Heart and Soul, too many familiar cords. I need to breathe it all in and EXHALE. Let's just say your story has touched me. Yes some tears, yes some anger, and yes many smiles. I guess that's the definition of as they Aussie's say a GOOD READ."
-- Kevin Barrett 

"I have had every emotion reading this book, from crying when her mom left her to anger with her being beaten . . . to loving the part with her grandmother and her talking about the fridge and washer and dryer - - LOL! best part - - she sounds like she was a wonderful person. So glad Luky's life is what she wants it to be now."
-- Jessica Cowart, full time mother and wife 

More Praise . . .


"Despite all the struggles she went through in life, she still managed out strong! My god, she metamorphosed into a fabulous individual."
-- Rajesh Unnithan

"Her story will break your heart and at the same time you'll be thankful for the life you've had."
-- Rick Willard

"Really shows the other side and view of things that many people take for granted."
-- Alamin Hahs, lawyers without borders

"Would make a great movie."
-- Jlynn Evol
 
If you enjoyed The Namesake by Jhumpa Lahiri or Bricklane by Monica Ali, you are going to love Bengali Girls Don't!



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13 of 13 people found the following review helpful
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A fascinating biography that begins in East Pakistan, soon to be Bangaladesh, as the author's parents flee before the military purge instigated by General Yahya Khan. We are then taken on a journey that clearly shows the contrasts between Western and Eastern cultures, as the author lived through them growing up in Bradford, England; having to balance her parents' traditions against her own desire to fit in with the culture of the country she considered to be her home. The racism and distrust displayed by people from both cultures is very stark at times and there are disturbing scenes of violence when the invisible lines between the two are seen to be crossed. This leads on to the section of the biography dealing with the author's enforced marriage which reads like a waking nightmare in places and reminded me very much of Sylvia Plath's poem 'Purdah' - a woman raging and hurting because she has been trapped by others into their shadow, never allowed to breathe and just be herself. As much as this biography deals with cultural clashes as well as abusive repression and subjugation, it is also very illuminating with regard to Muslim and Bengali culture. I applaud the author for including sections of dialogue in Bengali with appropriate English translations as opposed to presenting all of the dialogue in English. As a reader, I found it gave a greater sense of the people being portrayed, as certain phrases became familiar and understanding of their meaning and use evolved throughout the narrative. The lighter moments of this sometimes harrowing account are also owed to these sections of dialogue, I think, as we see the affection and love that is contained in a single turn of phrase or a nickname.
Recommended.
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6 of 6 people found the following review helpful
By Eddie
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It's awesome to read a memoir about a real hero, a girl who escaped her culture, religion, and entire family history to break away from an arranged marriage. She overcame great odds, even won the visa lottery for America, before finally marrying the prince of her dreams and becoming a successful author and model. Kudos to L.A.!! She an excellent addition to the old US of A.
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4 of 4 people found the following review helpful
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This is a very sad story of a girl whose life is completely taken from her for the first 30 or more years of her life (as I will go onto mention, the writing of this book makes it confusing at times, so not sure on times anymore) ...

The synopsis is full of promise, the book itself is full of promise, but the writing style and the content lets it down completely.

I was pulled in from the first page, as it started in the midst of the war between East and West Pakistan, and it was an all action start. And actually the first third or so of the book was an engaging, interesting read, and I think it was this that kept me going till the end.

I was frustrated by the way that the book was full of jumps and gaps, and some things not explained enough and others too much... Sometimes the book would touch on something that sounded interesting, then you'd not hear of it again which was confusing and so frustrating. Also, once Luky was married, it seemed to skim over the whole marriage and skip 17 years in a heart beat, which didn't really push home the level of abuse and suffering it was supposed to, as it all was so quick compared to the happier beginnings in Bradford. I also found it confusing how lots of characters (like siblings, cousins etc) were written about but not introduced properly, even at the start we went from Luky being a new born and therefore the youngest with two older brothers, to Luky having 3 younger sisters, I think... not sure... Oh and when Luky gave birth, it was rushed over like it meant nothing... I don't even understand how she got to America.... I could go on for ages about gaps and confusions I had, but on the whole I am trying to say, WOW IT WAS GAPPY!!

One other thing I found difficult was the style of writing jumped around, at one point around mid way, it changed from being told like a story in third person, to being told through transcripts of therapy (I think?!?! I wasn't totally sure), it then jumped back and forth with no warning between the two styles of writing. Very strange, and seemed like an afterthought to do it that way which was then plonked in half way..

On the whole, Luky clearly has a fascinating life story to tell, but it needs to be told in a better manner.
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A young girl robbed of her childhood
I really enjoyed this book. It gave me an insight into how young Bengali girls lives are dominated by their parents. Read more
Published 14 days ago by jennyp19
Wonderful from Start to Finish
I absolutely loved this book. Read it and savour every moment!

The writing is jumbled at times but I think it adds to the feel of the author, the confusion and upset... Read more
Published 26 days ago by P. J. Pawley-smith
I Loved it¡¡¡!!!
This story will have you in stitches!This book is one of my all time favorites¡!Loved every bit of it!Humours and a very good read.Would reccommend to a friend.
Published 1 month ago by Miss.A
A sad read
This was a very touching book for me, am wondering if this type of behaviour really still carry on. Well narrated by the writer and the ending was very amazing
Published 1 month ago by Mamuzo
disappointing
I found this book very disappointing... and to be honest not very well written.

The very fact that she describes herself as an unwanted daughter I found disappointing. Read more
Published 1 month ago by N. Hatherell
Such Potential !!
I was so disappointed with this book - although the general story line was in itself fascinating I struggled with the mismash of the general tone of the english language used. Read more
Published 2 months ago by Lazydaisy
very enjoyable
Enjoyed this book a lot, well worth the price. Very easy read and a good insight into different cultures
Published 2 months ago by Alice Tomlinson
Don't .....
I think there might have been a good book in here somewhere - but it's badly written, with bad spelling and poor grammar. Read more
Published 3 months ago by D. Riches
Disjointed
I bought this book on the strength of some very good reviews but to be honest was very disappointed. Read more
Published 3 months ago by Elemsie
Naff Title.Brilliant Read.
Don't let the rather naff title put you off reading this book. It is so much more than the usual 'Misery Memoirs' that proliferate. Read more
Published 3 months ago by DV8 Diva
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