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Backwards in High Heels: The Impossible Art of Being Female [Hardcover]

Tania Kindersley , Sarah Vine
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19 Feb 2009

The world is a fraught place for the contemporary female.

Working mothers are still expected to make their children's costumes for the school play, despite the fact that home economics was abolished in the Seventies; we're told it's not looks but brains that count, and yet if we dare to leave the house looking vaguely our age we're made to feel like failures; women's magazines run earnest articles about the evils of size 00 culture, only to feature models with hips like 10-year-old boys a few pages later; we pay the same level of taxation as men, and yet on average we earn 25% less.

So, this book - a book for women who never got around to perfecting the art of domestic divinity but would quite like to be able to cook supper for six without having a nervous breakdown; who never quite mastered Cosmo's 101 ways to please your man, but don't want the embarrassment, not to say inconvenience, of him running off with a 19-year-old Russian supermodel.

It's your mother, your best friend, your guru and your shrink wrapped up in book form, with jokes. It's the antidote to every stupid, boring, reductive magazine article you've ever read, or every silly, hair-twirling, chick lit confection about girls called Arabella who marry bankers and live in Gstaad. It's for women who love their children but don't want them to run their lives; and for women who love their lives and won't have them run by children. It's about revising expectations, exploding myths and generally dealing with all that life, love and other people have to throw at you.



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  • Hardcover: 256 pages
  • Publisher: Fourth Estate (19 Feb 2009)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0007273835
  • ISBN-13: 978-0007273836
  • Product Dimensions: 20.2 x 15.8 x 3.6 cm
  • Average Customer Review: 4.1 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (28 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Bestsellers Rank: 265,728 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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‘A witty and penetrating examination of the fantasies women create that imprison them. Marvellously liberating.’ Dorothy Rowe

‘Luminously lovely prose, wit, wisdom and –another rarity– great kindness.’ Catherine Nixey The Times

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'This beautifully produced book offers a refreshing new approach, illuminating the lot of contemporary women without claiming to have the answers.'

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95 of 101 people found the following review helpful
4.0 out of 5 stars An Unexpected Pleasure 24 Feb 2009
By Arthur
Format:Hardcover
As a 70 year old man I am certainly not the target audience for this book. My daughter is and I have given her a copy. I picked it up because I liked the look of the cover. Dipping in to it, I was at once struck by the authors' wit and intelligence. It's very entertaining - not at all what one might have expected. It's full of surprises. It seems to be a book of thoughts, almost of musings, rather than of advice as such. What about a chapter entitled 'Philosophy of Life, Self-Esteem and the Whole Damn Thing'? Whoa, as the young say. Buy it - you'll enjoy it.
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34 of 36 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Great for the weary 22 Mar 2009
Format:Hardcover
I read this whilst trying to teach my 9 week old son to sleep - it was diverting and light hearted enough to keep me sane and good tempered in the task. A lovely book that gently pokes fun at the expectations that we set for ourselves as women whilst at the same time encourages us to take time just to appreciate and enjoy things just as they are.
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27 of 31 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Lovely and empathetic read 7 April 2009
By Reader
Format:Hardcover|Amazon Verified Purchase
I really enjoyed this book. I disagree with view that it is only of interest to those without 'life experience', if such people exist. Speaking personally, which is all you can ever do, I found the book to be full of wisdom and insight of which mostly we are all aware but which we forget we know, particularly in our dark moments. Reading it was like having a wonderful day out with your closest women friends and talking about everything from the meaning of life to the perfect lipstick and all in between. It is a reminder that we are all imperfect and should be glad to be so, as it is our flaws and idiosyncrasies that make us who we are and that attract others to us. It is wonderfully witty, warm and comforting. I loved it.
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2 of 2 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars A book like a friend in need 30 Jan 2012
By Andrea
Format:Paperback
It seems to me that women's books tend to get a lot of bad reputation, and usually because they fall into two categories: they are being far too 'feminist' for their own good (one would say over the top), more rooted in fiction than in reality or they propose solutions that most mortal ladies can't really adhere to or they advocate radical lifestyle changes, coming across as preachy and arrogant in their desire to be a 'self help' format.

This book doesn't do either of those things. I lost my mother when she was fairly young so this book was a sort of literary placeholder for most of the things she'd started to teach me. It was closure for a lot of unfinished bonding experiences and it does it really nicely. Why? It doesn't preach, it just gives you the good and bad and lets you make your own mind up about it in this day and age: it doesn't tell you vegan is best or that carnivores are better fed, it tells you to think about where your food comes from. It doesn't tell you to never wear make-up or refrain from buying some really expensive shoes or dress because you are upset: it just tells you not to fall into those traps every single time. It doesn't tell you to never have a c-section because you might be labelled 'too posh to push', it tells you to be realistic about what you'll go through. It doesn't tell you to get married or never get married, just asks you to imagine if you can see yourself follow the idea through to the very end and then decide.

Essentially whatever contradictions you may experience about your life, it's not meant to offer you solutions (you fill in the dots), just confidence in knowing you've made the right choice. Or as the authors would say, bringing in the 'perspective police'.
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1 of 1 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars backwards in high heels 15 Jan 2012
By RIA
Format:Paperback|Amazon Verified Purchase
fabulous book . i have previously read myself and have bought and continue to buy for all of my female friends . the authors discuss various topics including love , men , health money and age . no need to read from start to finish , but one can choose each topic at random , funny , entertaining and true , a book which almost every woman can relate to , and one of the best books i have ever read
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5.0 out of 5 stars great book - true and hilarious 14 Jan 2012
By anne
Format:Paperback
very easy to readand can be readiin short bursts - fabulous book for everyone about life and on going pre-occupations
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1 of 1 people found the following review helpful
Format:Paperback
I love this book, there are parts of it where I feel the authors must have been spying on me, it's so accurate a depiction of my life experiences! And in other places it really enlightened me on why and how women can end up where they do in their lives, and also about why we spend so much of our time feeling guilty/responsible/like we've failed at marriage/careers/being a mother etc. etc.

There were some sections that didnt have any relevence for me, so I skipped them, and I think that's alright as this book is written in the style of separate articles, rather than as a particularly cohesive whole. I greatly enjoyed the humour in the book, the authors appear to have had fun writing it and there are moments of real wit. There is also a lot of useful information that was great for giving me some sort of academic/intellectual backing to what I have felt on an intuitive level.

I think this book should be given to every woman on her 40th birthday!
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6 of 8 people found the following review helpful
1.0 out of 5 stars Not nearly as good as it thinks it is. 9 Jan 2011
By Jools
Format:Paperback
Entertaining on all things female up to the point where they offer their own life choices by way of example. Then you realise the planet on which they reside is not yours. Far better to save up for a little Picasso to put above the mantlepeice than waste your hard earned pennies on those trashy, flashy handbags? Glad we sorted that one. A Picasso is just another type of bling surely, especially if you have to tell everyone about it. In a book. As with certain inhabitants of Westminster, there is very little understanding or acknowledgement in here of life at the pointy end, assuming as they do, that they speak for all when in fact they are members of a very small privileged group indeed. If you are juggling kids and a LOW profile job their perspective will exasperate you, the witticisms grate and the delicious receipe for squid will be no effing use at all. We're all in this together sisters? Not likely.

The design is brilliant - best thing though!
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5.0 out of 5 stars Great book
I loved this book, it's an easy read and makes you feel good whilst also have lots of moments when the penny drops! Great for men and women to read. Read more
Published 2 months ago by H Rowe
5.0 out of 5 stars Backwards in Heels book
Great book, great read, had problems purchasing for my kindle so had to revert back to buying the hard copy! forgotten what its like to read a real book :-)
Published 5 months ago by joanne fitzpatrick
2.0 out of 5 stars Could be better..
This book promises a lot and has the potential to deliver incisive, humourous and meaningful insights into the female experience. Read more
Published 17 months ago by Robyn S
4.0 out of 5 stars Backwards in High H....s
A very interesting and very readable book for both sexes. To be 'dipped in' - don't start at page 1 and churn your way through !
Published on 6 Feb 2011 by PaulDR
1.0 out of 5 stars Clever Book Title, Promises Much But Delivers Very Little
The book title is based on the fact that Ginger Rogers danced backwards, in high heels but was never fully recognised for her talent, whilst her (male) partner, Fred Astair,... Read more
Published on 11 Jan 2011 by Charlie
5.0 out of 5 stars Great for dipping into and reaffirming your faith in yourself!
I love this book. The paired authors ("We")can sometimes come across as a bit bossy, 'head girl' types, and assume to have all the knowledge of all women at their fingertips, when... Read more
Published on 11 July 2010 by jude1207
5.0 out of 5 stars Great read and great gift idea
I LOVE this book. It's written in such a concise and well-thought out way and is the sort of book you can dip in and out of when it suits you. Read more
Published on 1 Jun 2010 by Charismattic
1.0 out of 5 stars Not feminism
I read this book for my reading group and was hugely disappointed. In the first few pages I began to realise it had little to do with feminism. Read more
Published on 3 Mar 2010 by Readinglass
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