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Baby Wisdom: The World's Best-kept Secrets for the First Year of Parenting [Paperback]

Deborah Jackson
4.7 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (13 customer reviews)

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7 Feb 2002
In every culture baby care issues are the same - from crying babies to sleepless nights, breastfeeding problems to weaning worries. But when it comes to solutions, there is much that we can learn from other country's traditions. There are cultures, for example, where babies rarely cry, where breastfeeding is routine for grandmothers as well as mothers, and where babies always sleep with older family members. Looking beyond our own narrow approach is not only fascinating but hugely enlightening too.

Tackling all the topics of modern baby care, theme by theme, this is a treasure trove of positive ideas, combining the unusual and the universal, the unexpected and the commonplace. Reassuring for parents everywhere, it shows there is no one way of bringing up baby.

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  • Paperback: 544 pages
  • Publisher: Hodder Paperbacks (7 Feb 2002)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0340793503
  • ISBN-13: 978-0340793503
  • Product Dimensions: 23 x 15.6 x 4.2 cm
  • Average Customer Review: 4.7 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (13 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Bestsellers Rank: 148,303 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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This is the best book on bringing up babies I've ever read, and that's saying something. by Georgina Metcalfe -- Daily Mail, February 22, 2002

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Deborah Jackson is a parenting author and freelance writer for newspapers and magazines including the Independent, Daily Mail and Guardian. She writes a regular column for Natural Parent. She has three children.

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25 of 25 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars An overview of world babies 3 Mar 2002
I ordered this book after hearing the author interviewed about it on 'Woman's Hour'. I had visions of her having travelled to all these far flung places to do her research. However instead 'Baby Wisdom' trawels through all the literature on baby care, both historical and anthropological. A disappointment? No, for this is no mean feat, and it certainly does a thorough job of it. Infact Deborah Jackson's book must be one of the most comprehensive overviews of its kind.
If you liked the Body Shop's "Mamatoto", you will love this. It's a similar idea, but gives us much, much more. I particularly valued the quotes which gave names and voices to women from around the world, rather than just relying on the anthropologists' reports.
The book sets out to describe the 'difference and sameness' between babycare practices around the world. It does this without giving way to the temptation to take the moral high ground over issues which we know are close to the author's heart. There is no preachy tone, just some witty, some humourous, and some thought provoking remarks. (Not least the revelation that in a Somerset hospital there was a correlation between birth weight and net chocolate weight of y=3349+0.52058x, where the chocolates were the thank you present.)
One regret is that Baby Wisdom is not illustrated. I have some of the books sourced, and find the old black and white photos the anthropologists took as fascinating as the texts. However, any interested reader could follow up the references if they wanted to find out more about the cultures featured.
One thing is for sure: however quirky your baby is, however far you stray from the health visitor's advice, you need not feel alone in the world. You can take comfort from the wisdom that somewhere in human evolution there's a reason for every baby's babyness.
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5.0 out of 5 stars Baby Wisdom 6 July 2002
Deborah Jackson has been the most influential author for me as a mother since having my son four years ago, when I saw this book in the bookshop I automatically bought and it does not disappoint. As usual, Jackson has produced a book which encourages and celebrates a mother's instinct when caring for her baby and small child. The amazing variety of baby care practices from around the world are presented clearly and serve to encourage western mothers and fathers to examine the "wisdom" of some current baby care advice. I was struck by the way in which babies are viewed by the different cultures around the world, most seeing babies as normal, necessary participants in a family's/society's life, mothers and babies are generally not separated either from each other or from the society within which they live. I think we have a lot to learn in the west, where separation from all that is familiar and reassuring is the experience of many new mothers, it is no wonder that "routine, parent-directed baby care advice" has found such a ready market here.
If you want to re-examine western attitudes to babies, mothers and their care, read this book, it will help to set you free to be the mother/father that you instinctively want to be.
I am expecting our second child in October and this book has strengthened my resolve to do it "my way". With a back up of millions of other mothers around the world!
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5.0 out of 5 stars Fascinating 19 Aug 2004
By Alianor
I borrowed this book from the library a few days ago and I have probably read most of it already, though not cover-to-cover: I have been opening it at random every time I pick it up and have trouble putting it down! It has really made me think about a lot of the parenting practices we take for granted in the West because it shows so clearly how these are not universal. Things that we take for granted may be entirely unknown in another culture. Most importantly this book does not romanticise the ways other cultures do things -- it looks at both the good and the bad. Even if it doesn't change the way you choose to parent this book will give you a new appreciation of how babies grow and develop.
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5.0 out of 5 stars Browse through 'Baby wisdom' 3 Sep 2002
I did not read "Baby Wisdom". You cannot peruse such a rich non-fiction book from page one to page 500. I put it somewhere on my desk and, now and then, I open it at random. Each time I start reading I need a pen to take notes. The more I explore this inimitable source of information, the more I am amazed by the art Deborah Jackson has developed to widen our horizons. On the first page that caught my attention, I came across the story of a mother gorilla in a zoo who had been unable to give the breast to her baby until the day when she saw a group of breastfeeding human mothers. Via such a story you are immediately conditioned to interpret many current breastfeeding difficulties and to accept the key sentence in that page: "Western humans are born and raised in an environment as artificial as any zoo". You unreservedly agree that we cannot make assumptions about human infant feeding in general by looking at our very special cultural milieu.
'Baby wisdom' cannot be compared with any other book or manual about babies and child rearing. Let us take as an example the chapter about crying babies. Most baby books focus on recipes in order to calm a colicky baby. Deborah Jackson first helps us to realize that crying is the universal language of infancy. Thanks to her highly concise style she just needs one line: "Rhesus monkeys coo. Ape babies scream. And human infants cry". After that we are curious to know about the interpretation of infant crying in different cultural milieus. When our curiosity has been amply fulfilled, we are ready to accept that our western interpretations set us apart from most of the world.
Browse through 'Baby wisdom' and you'll learn about human nature from an authentic expert...the mother of three children.
Liliana Lammers
Doula and grandmother
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5.0 out of 5 stars A MUST READ
Love this book, it doesn't tell you what to do (get enough of that) just what others have done in the past and around the world.
Published 1 month ago by Williams
4.0 out of 5 stars Interesting read
We should never get too confident on the being parents front. There are practices all over the world that are just as effective, even if a little unconventional by our standards. Read more
Published 9 months ago by JLet
5.0 out of 5 stars reassurance that following your instincts is the way it should be
Im a UK new mother living half the year in Borneo, I when I came back to Uk there are so many different routines they say to follow, let then cry? Dont do this? Dont do that? Read more
Published 14 months ago by michelle
4.0 out of 5 stars Wish I'd read it earlier
There are some amazing, interesting and disturbing facts and stories in this book. I am a big fan of Deborah Jackson and find her research into this area so educational.
Published 19 months ago by janifitz
3.0 out of 5 stars not as good as her other books
I have read 2 other books by this author and this one lacks the substance the other two have. I have read "Three in a bed" and "letting go as children grow" and compared to them... Read more
Published on 16 Jun 2012 by hostelgirl
5.0 out of 5 stars A different perspective on parenting
This book helped me to realise how bizarre some of our modern western childbirth and parenting techniques actually are. Read more
Published on 12 May 2011 by cj
5.0 out of 5 stars The best baby book you can buy!
I bought this book as a gift for my sister-in-law as I have a copy myself and I love it! It is a fab book which details how pregnancy, birth and parenting is done around the world. Read more
Published on 21 Aug 2010 by Sugar and Spicer
5.0 out of 5 stars Mind Opening!
I borrowed Baby Wisdom from our library when I was 6 months pregnant with my first baby. I must say I was lucky to read it during pregnancy because it simply opened up my mind to... Read more
Published on 29 Aug 2007 by S. Exner
5.0 out of 5 stars The best baby book for new mums
Forget about the contended baby books. Read this book instead.

It made me realise that I was normal after all, and just going through what every new mum... Read more
Published on 19 Jan 2007 by mim ward
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