A book I've found extremely helpful, partly because I could really identify with the couple who wrote it, and partly because it brought me some long-awaited insight and answers. Not many books out there do actually give you an insight of what concretely goes on inside your AS partner's head, on the very subjects you, the NT, are so confused about. It's very good because the book is written a bit like a dialogue (although not quite), but you get both partners to write about relevant topics, which lets you see how both ways of thinking differ. I'm grateful to Sarah and Keith for writing this book, definitely an interesting read full of "aha's!", a great way to understand better your partner's difficulties or "logic". This book allows you to take the necessary distance and understand things a bit less emotionally.