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Are You the One for Me?: How to Have the Relationship You've Always Wanted: Knowing Who's Right and Avoiding Who's Wrong [Paperback]

Barbara De Angelis (Author)
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Publication Date: 17 Jan 2013

Now you can have the relationship you’ve always wanted.

From Barbara De Angelis, author of 14 bestselling relationships titles and internationally-recognised relationship psychologist, comes the definitive book on compatibility.

Are You The One For Me? is an engaging and lucid guide to creating – and sustaining – the fulfilling relationship you deserve.

World-renowned relationship counsellor Barbara De Angelis reveals everything you need to know about compatibility. You’ll learn:

• Why you’ve chosen the partners you have – and how to make better choices,
• How much sexual chemistry you and your partner really have,
• The ten types of relationships that won’t work,
• How your childhood memories may be affecting your love life,
• The six essential qualities to look for in a mate,
• How to spot fatal flaws in a partner,
• Why you may be falling in love for the wrong reason.

If you’re single or divorced: read this book to understand why your past choices weren’t right for you and how to get it right this time.

If you’re in love: learn how to be 100% certain that this relationship is the one for you.

If you’re married: discover how to understand and balance your differences so that you can live happily together every day.

Repackaged and redesigned for the modern reader with an iconic new cover, Are You The One For Me? is the last word in finding the right type of companionship for you.

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  • Paperback: 368 pages
  • Publisher: Harper Element; 2Rev Ed edition (17 Jan 2013)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0722532989
  • ISBN-13: 978-0722532980
  • Product Dimensions: 12.8 x 19.6 cm
  • Average Customer Review: 4.5 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (48 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Bestsellers Rank: 64,412 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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Readers’ praise for Secrets About Men Every Woman Should Know:

“I read this book many years ago and having just celebrated my 30th wedding anniversary feel I am in a position to confirm how brilliant this book is. It completely changed my preconceptions that I wasn’t even aware of… Barbara encouraged me to chuck ‘em out and enjoy life and enjoy my husband!” Gigi

“One of the few books I’ve read which is worth its weight in gold.” Anon

“Loved it. My bible.” Shurooq

“Excellent… Highly recommended if you want to have a better understanding of men.” Marwa Ayad

“Barbara talks to women as adults, which makes a refreshing change from a lot of relationship books.” Anon

About the Author

Barbara De Angelis, Ph.D., is one of the world’s most eminent relationship and personal growth psychologists. Active for over 25 years, Barbara was one of the first voices to advocate self-help in the 1980s and was among the first nationally-recognised motivational teachers on television. Her messages about love, happiness and the search for meaning in our lives have reached millions across the globe.

She lives in Santa Barbara, California.

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40 of 41 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars A must-have self help book 13 May 2002
By A Customer
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This book is fantastic! I cannot recommend it more strongly. The book is not a naff 'how to get a man' book, it really helps you work out why you make mistakes not only with partners, but also with relationships generally. It really helps you get to know yourself and why you make the relationship choices you do. It is very practical with lots of helpful advice and strategies, and quizzes. It is good fun. I have put one or two of the suggestions into practice and it is really helping me. Forget about the naff cover, some of the phrases and typeface, read and take in the contents, you will be impressed by how useful this book is. Go on BUY IT!!!
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25 of 26 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Everyone considering a relationship should read this book! 5 Mar 2000
By A Customer
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I had this book for 5 years on my bookshelf before I finally plucked up the courage to read it. When I finally did read it, it was hard to read about myself and very painful but also very healing at the same time and opened up my eyes to why I had been making the same mistakes over and over again in my relationships. I personally feel every kid in school should read this book before dating, everyone in a relationship and considering a relationship should read it even those who are married!

If there ever was a Bible on relationships, THIS is the book to read! Barbara covers all issues, every nook and cranny, opens up our eyes, shows us what to look for, how to build a compatability list, how to avoid the wrong people, how to choose the right guy, and basically a step by step guide to doing it right!

Barbara practically hands it to us on a plate and my only wish is that I had read it 5 years ago when I initially bought it which would have saved me the heartache of the last relationship which I WOULD have avoided if I had read her book! I would have known the signs when I saw them and I would have known what to do etc etc! Thank you Barbara for writing this book for all of us!

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21 of 22 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Ten out of ten! 17 Oct 2003
By Lady H
Format:Paperback
I first read this book 3 years ago as I was breaking up from a relationship and it helped me to make sense of what happened as well as what had gone wrong in my previous marriages. I read it very thoroughly - having lots of fun as well as learning a great deal from the case histories, tests and quizzes. I made my compatibility list and kept it in my handbag. It made me believe that I deserve happiness as much anyone else, how to not settle for less than the best for me, and saved me from making a bad mistake with a man who wasn't right for me. 18 months later I married a man I knew from my church, and we are 92% compatible! I have recommended the book to 2 of my closest friends, both of whom have found it immensely helpful too. The best book on relationships I have ever read, I couldn't commend it more highly. It's full of (un)common sense, insightful and highly practical. A must for anyone - even before the first date!! Our marriage is the envy (& relief!)of many of our friends, family and church. We are proof that a blissfully happy marriage is not only possible, but attainable. Do yourself a favour - go for it - but not before you read & do the exercises in this book!
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29 of 31 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Best Book I have Ever Read.... 15 April 2001
By A Customer
Format:Paperback
I found this book by accident, I thought it would be really difficult to follow and understand, but it couldn't be easier to read, I learned so much about myself and the relationships I have had in the past and now that I know more about myself and warning signs etc to look for and how to make my own compatability list then I don't think I will be making the same mistakes again.

I can recommend this book to anyone whether you are married or single. It has become a bible to me and I keep referring back to this book and the lessons I learned about myself whilst reading it.

Beware though because you may discover things you don't really like, but at least if you know what they are you can work on fixing them.

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15 of 17 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars This is a wonderfully useful book. 21 Dec 2000
By A Customer
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I would absolutely agree with all the above comments - especially having been through a major break up - there is stacks of common sense in this book - something that is fairly uncommon!.
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2 of 2 people found the following review helpful
1.0 out of 5 stars The worst self help book I have ever read. 28 Jan 2013
By Avido
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Don't let the title of the book fool you because that's the only clever thing about it. Also don't let the word 'Doctor' fool you either. The book is a hotchpotch of personal opinion and conjecture with a bit of uncited theory thrown in. This book would unlikely pass any thesis requirements. She's less self help guru and more 'aunty who's been around the block a bit'. If you want an aunty style ramble then this is your book. But if you are looking for answers, don't waste your money. This woman is not a practicing therapist. Her 'case studies' are friends she's spoken to over brunch, idiots who have called into her radio show and people she's walked across campus with after she has given a talk. I really can't critisize this book enough. I wish there was a zero star option. It's absolutely the worst book I've ever read!!!
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2 of 2 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars WARNING! THIS BOOK IS NOT FOR THE FEARFUL HEARTED! 19 Jan 1998
By A Customer
Format:Mass Market Paperback
WOE! TALK ABOUT FORCING ONE TO BE HONEST WITH HERSELF/HIMSELF! Barbara writes with an uncommon quantity of wisdom, helping the reader to objectively evaluate practically everything that could become a problem in a developing or potential relationship. However, she also gives the reader the tools to evaluate whether or not a potential mate will produce MINIMAL problems in a serious relationship; in effect, readers will know if someone is suitable for them or not. Some readers may not even have to reach the end of this book before making that all important decision to continue, or not continue, with that person. Barb uses some "harsh" language, but does not get out of hand by using a profane style of writing. The harsh words she uses are harsh only because they are real. Also, as a traditional and religious reader, I find it difficult to appreciate some of the advice this book gives, like premarital sex, to try someone on, and see if he or she fits. (Religious or traditional readers will want to have their principles "in tact" before reading this book, lest they feel tempted to "give in".) However, this book should be required reading for all people ever planning to get married. Only because this book was not written from a traditional standpoint did it receive only a 9. Otherwise, this book is a sure 10, out of 10.
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5.0 out of 5 stars Helps with "your head or your heart" decision
This book has been so full of useful guidance about whether to pursue or persevere with a relationship.
It helped me decide on which One - i.e. Read more
Published 1 month ago by Lindsay BLACKMAN
5.0 out of 5 stars Loved this book!
I loved this book so helpful to understand relationship issues. Shame I didn't find it back in the 1990's when it first came out. Would have saved me a lot of heartache!
Published 3 months ago by morningstar
5.0 out of 5 stars Very useful book and well written
I would recommend this book to anyone who wanted to have an honest look at their relationship or the way they relate
Published 6 months ago by KC
5.0 out of 5 stars You must read this book
I read many books about relationships but this is the best one!I just wish i read it sooner. It offers relationship advise and presents you with a stories from real life of other... Read more
Published 7 months ago by Daria
5.0 out of 5 stars Are you the one for me?
A good book. I am really enjoying it. The book is very helpful where it is giving me guidance about relationships in general, things to look out for when you meet someone etc. Read more
Published 10 months ago by Mrs. T. Lewis
3.0 out of 5 stars Can be helpful but you have to take some of it with some discernment
This book has some helpful pointers and suggestions about considering whether someone is compatible. Read more
Published 23 months ago by lightinglife
5.0 out of 5 stars Best Self Help Book I've Ever Used
I credit this book with totally changing my approach to relationships. It made me realise that there was a pattern in the wrong type of man that I was attracted to & also why I... Read more
Published on 12 April 2011 by Z. Meyer
1.0 out of 5 stars Not what I expected
After a recommendation from a friend who cited it as a great book for those in a relationship I looked forward to reading this book. Read more
Published on 3 Jan 2011 by Jeaniei
5.0 out of 5 stars Relationship therapy
I couldn't put this book down and eventually bought another copy for my best friend it was that good. Highly recommended x
Published on 2 Sep 2010 by Foxy
5.0 out of 5 stars Wow!
This is a very interesting book.
It covers every subject surrounding relationships.
My cousin has a quick flick through and wanted to take the book with her b4 i even had... Read more
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