Whilst I appreciate that this book is a personal account of a womans struggle with her marriage, it is not informative in the scheme of understanding Aspergers. I bought this book after I realised that my husband had Aspergers which has since been diagnosed, and hoped to understand further how best to deal with everyday life. Unfortunately due to every case of Aspergers being so different and varied this book did nothing for me other than to provide an entertaining read! I learnt on my own that everything said is matter of fact and that no issue large or small is trivial to someone suffering from this syndrome. For a more informative read which helps in understanding the syndrome better, I would recommend "The complete guide to Aspergers Syndrome" by Tony Attwood. Tony Attwood's book is aimed at a relative academic level with it producing facts rather than a story, although for knowledge on this topic it is a far better place to go! "Alone together" for me was a rather disappointing buy as it left me none the wiser as to the complex nature of Aspergers Syndrome.