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Conflict is an unavoidable aspect of living. The late renowned aikido master Terry Dobson, together with Victor Miller, present aikido as a basis for conflict resolution. "Attack-tics" is a system of conflict resolution based on the principles of aikido, the non-violent martial art Morihei Ueshiba created after World War II. Not all conflicts are contests, say Dobson and Miller, and not all conflicts are equally threatening.
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17 of 17 people found the following review helpful
Format:Paperback
This book is badly written - there is little doubt about it. Indeed the first few chapters are a bit of a slog to get through - I admit that too. But then there is something that sparks to life like a burning match - as the authors explain the psychology of aikido and verbal hosility. They then present the subject in terms of various shapes. Ordinarily such a notion would be lost on me but when you really think about its sense you begin to understand that you can win most arguments hands down - and mostly by taking care of the agressor. By that I mean showing that you care.
There are obvious striking faults with this book. It hasn't aged very well and so on, but I would never dare to sell or lend out my personal copy, not for a thousand pounds. I keep my copy safe. I know I will need it one day again - probably when I have forgotten to understand my oponent.
I am very careful nowadays never to say something cruel even to the nastiest of people because of this book. Why? What are we taught to do when somebody says or does something bad towards us? Well we hit them back or say something horrid in return. They then do or say something much worse - until such a time the argument has spiraled out of control or until one side gives in. That is inneficient in terms of energy and success. If your opponent is prepared to hit harder than you or say something more hurtful, you're done for.
Have none of it, Aikido and this book will show you how to deal with difficult people and difficult situations as if you were fighting them on the mat at your local aikido club.
You've read thus far, you must be interested in this book, therefore buy it! You can only lose a few pounds. If I am wrong you can always mark this review down!
You will have got your revenge on me! What have you got to lose? I'd give the book to the General of the British Army if I could - we'd have a much more peaceful world that's for sure!!!
There are obvious striking faults with this book. It hasn't aged very well and so on, but I would never dare to sell or lend out my personal copy, not for a thousand pounds. I keep my copy safe. I know I will need it one day again - probably when I have forgotten to understand my oponent.
I am very careful nowadays never to say something cruel even to the nastiest of people because of this book. Why? What are we taught to do when somebody says or does something bad towards us? Well we hit them back or say something horrid in return. They then do or say something much worse - until such a time the argument has spiraled out of control or until one side gives in. That is inneficient in terms of energy and success. If your opponent is prepared to hit harder than you or say something more hurtful, you're done for.
Have none of it, Aikido and this book will show you how to deal with difficult people and difficult situations as if you were fighting them on the mat at your local aikido club.
You've read thus far, you must be interested in this book, therefore buy it! You can only lose a few pounds. If I am wrong you can always mark this review down!
You will have got your revenge on me! What have you got to lose? I'd give the book to the General of the British Army if I could - we'd have a much more peaceful world that's for sure!!!
15 of 15 people found the following review helpful
Format:Paperback
This is a most useful and interesting work. It has little to do with the physical practice of Aikido but rather borrows from its principals to help us sucessfully deal with conflict.
The book outlines the options one has in a coflict situation and makes a strong argument that the best route is indeed harmonising with your opponent. This does not mean giving in or appeasing but rather understanding their view point and using that understanding to guide them to yours :-). Most cunning - just like Aikido, which is one of the more modern martial arts.
Yes, the language and presentation is a little dated but the pricipals and techniques that the book outlines are as valid and useful today as when the book was written.
7 of 7 people found the following review helpful
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I simply cannot say enough about this book. Dobson, and Miller make the first step into the world of Aikido an easy one. Since reading this book and practicing its teachings, I've been able to find peace not only within' myself, but with others as well. The authors gave me this gift which will accompany me through the rest of my life. My most sincere thanks to Dobson and Miller.
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Such a great idea... but the book isn't so great imho
I hesitate to criticise because I knew the book was written in the 70's, and in the style of the day, but I couldn't get beyond that. Read more
Published on 11 Jun 2009 by Gids
Not only for aikidoka
I read this book over a year ago and enjoyed it very much. I train in aikido and this book made me think about the philosophy of aikido in daily life. Read more
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Harmony
Aikido is special. Special because you don't aim to beat your opponent. That alone can not be incomprehendable to some. Read more
Published on 2 Jan 2003
This Book Sucks!
I still can't beleive that some people gave this book anything that resembles a good rating. What is wrong with you people? Read more
Published on 15 April 1999
Ineffective
I was curious about how the principles of aikido could be used in verbal communication, something I always wanted to do but didn't know how. Read more
Published on 11 Mar 1999
A must read for everyone.....
This book is on of the best books on aikido I have ever read. I would recommend it to everyone who is or isnt involved in the martial arts... Read more
Published on 23 Sep 1998
A must for interpersonal relations, conflict resolution.
I also picked up this book after skimming several Aikido technique manuals. What a pleasant surprise to find out that this book ultimately has little to do with physical... Read more
Published on 4 Mar 1998
A must for interpersonal relations, conflict resolution.
I also picked up this book after skimming several Aikido technique manuals. What a pleasant surprise to find out that this book ultimately has little to do with physical... Read more
Published on 4 Mar 1998
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Life changing
I picked up a copy of this book at a local yard sale thinking it would be filled with Aikido techniques . Read more
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