The book makes a credible case for the abuse of men by women -- and of the stigma attached to admitting such a thing, much like the (mercifully) lessening stigma attached to women bringing charges of sexual harassment or sexual assault. Men who are abused can find a measure of validation in reading the stories of other men who have been abused, and for this alone, the book provides a valuable service. However, in its drive to legitimize its premise, it needlessly minimizes the very real and continuing horror faced by WOMEN who suffer domestic violence and abuse. For this reason, and because the research, although credible, is unsatisfying and mysteriously thin, my review is that of a mild recommendation only. It could have been so much better.