As the parent of a child with Down's, I keep wondering if doctors don't exaggerate its debitating effects because.. it's one of the few disabilities they can diagnose before birth. Is there method in this (hypocritical) madness?
Mr. Merriman's wit and sanity are a refreshing change from the usual drivel written about Down's. His book is appropriately very funny.
Since our daughter's birth 14 years ago, we have endured 1) rude people (who stare) 2) polite people (who pretend our daughter is invisible) 3) patronizing people (a lot of whom annoyingly become special educators) who use the first person plural when speaking to her and 4) the occasional person whose mind is receptive to another person's reality. The most intelligent comment we have had about our daughter was from the father of one of her "normal" friends. He said "We have forced her to live in our world, to learn to speak our language. But we know nothing of the place she comes from, nor the language she speaks in secret to herself. We force her to cross the bridge to us, but we never bother to think what we might discover if we met her more than half-way. And who can say her universe is less interesting than ours?"
Mr. Merriman's book cracks open a door to a "condition" that is not so much a "debitating birth defect" as it is another set of values.